Everyday Affair

Everyday Affair

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Archive for Behavour

Should You Leave Your Unhappy Marriage?

The divorce rate is so high that some people are afraid to get married in the first place. They think there is no point because most of the people they know are getting divorced – some even just a few years after saying their vows. An unhappy marriage is no fun, and can make people [...]

Understanding women is easy – if you’re a woman! Clues for men

Men are, indeed, from Mars, and women are from Venus. As old as humanity, there has always existed a disparity of nature between the male and female genders. Men are far more practical and tend to aggression, while women view life in a more subjective manner and tend towards the emotional sides of life. The [...]

What Are Relationship Experts

Recently I met someone who told me that she is a therapist that specializes in relationships. Though she does handle family and even work relationships, the majory of her clients are there for love and/or marriage problems. What surprised me is that even though this is what she does for a living, her own personal [...]

What characterizes a troubled relationship? When do you call it quits or work to resolve the issues?

The current divorce rate in the U.S. exceeds 50%, not an encouraging statistic. When a couple makes the decision to marry, they don’t anticipate divorce. They are bright and hopeful of living together in love and happiness, ’til death do us part’. Why is it, that people who believe they’ve found their ultimate happiness with [...]

Coaching And Mentoring

Coaching and mentoring has always come very easily to me. I’ve always loved working with Little League teams and organizations like that to help them play the best game they can play. I’ve been a coach and mentor for softball, football, baseball, and basketball teams, but until recently I never thought about making a career [...]

Self discipline is not the only component of changing behaviors: you need a plan!

We all have behaviors we’d like to change. These behaviors don’t necessarily have to be vices perse. Perhaps you always procrastinate when it comes to the weekly shopping. You wait until the late afternoon to get out and get it done. By that time, the stores are crowded, with other procrastinators, parking is difficult and [...]

Foster Parent Training

I had assumed that foster parent training would be a breeze. After all, if anyone knew how to be a parent, I did. I had raised three kids of my own, had taken a course load heavy in psychology in school, and had even briefly worked as a counselor, helping other people with parenting problems [...]

Children of divorce often suffer unnecessarily – how to avoid mistakes!

With almost half of the marriages in the U.S. ending in divorce, there are a lot of children who become afflicted with psychological, physical and social problems, which are almost entirely preventable. While you might have tried every avenue of trying to renew your relationship, went to marriage counseling or spoke with your religious adviser, [...]

Child obesity prevention is an issue every parent needs to address, early in life!

According to a recent news report, 34% of people in the U.S. are overweight, with an additional 33% considered obese! This means that just a third of us are of ‘normal’ weight. These statistics include people of all ages, including kids. No wonder everyone seems to be on a perpetual diet, with dozens of best [...]

Adolescent alcohol abuse is today, a widespread problem: what you can do

Alcohol abuse has traditionally been an adult problem, bringing devastating problems to families. Unfortunate as this might have been, we are now faced with an epidemic of adolescent alcohol abuse. Fully half of our children, from the grade school level through high school, have sampled alcoholic beverages in any given month. This startling statistic must [...]